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Jacob Steals the Blessing

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Wonder (2-3)Year 2Unit 2 (Wonder About God’s Growing Family)Session 5
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Jacob Steals the Blessing

Scripture
Focus
God was faithful to Jacob even though Jacob lied to his father and stole the blessing.
Faith Nurture Goals
  • Wonder at God's patience with Jacob and with us.
  • Sense that God continues to love us, even when we forget God.
  • Give examples of God's faithfulness to us even when we forget God.
Memory Challenge

Leader Reflection

Preparing to Tell God's Story

If the last story seemed challenging for children this age, this one may seem even more so. But it is filled with the kind of intrigue, danger, and sheer adventure that children this age love. It's important for you, the leader, to be familiar with what leads up to the tale, especially by reading Genesis 25:21-34.

Jacob wants the birthright, and Esau is careless about it. While Jacob doesn't know it, God has already secretly informed Rebekah that Jacob will bear the covenant promise. Yet they all in their own way use their wiles to get for themselves what God has already given. Jacob and Rebekah want the right thing (the covenant promise) but go about getting it in the wrong way.

What complicates the story is that God's promise is tied in with the parental blessing. It might be best to think of this blessing as a sort of prophetic vision that God is offering through the words of this dying parent. Notice how the words that Isaac spoke to Jacob echo the words of blessing that God spoke earlier to Abraham (Genesis 12:3). Jacob's words also mirror what God had said to Rebekah (25:23). The blessing was more than just the father's good wishes for his sons; it embodied the expression of God's promises given to Abraham and now passed on to the next generation.

At its heart this is a tale of trickery and deception. Encouraged by his mother, Jacob steals the birthright that he already swindled out of Esau. What a daring thing to impersonate his own brother's voice and smell and feel! But when Jacob gets scared, Rebekah pushes him on. She is ready to take on herself any curse that might come from old Isaac's lips.

If there's a villain in the story, it seems to be Rebekah: she pulls the strings and makes the plans while Jacob goes along with her plot. Isaac seems weak and gullible. If anyone in the story evokes sympathy, it's Esau, who remains obedient and faithful to his father and becomes a victim of Jacob's deception. It all ends in hatred, disgrace, and revenge. Talk about a dysfunctional family!

The Bible is much more realistic about human life than most TV dramas, with their clearly delineated good guys and bad guys. The Bible is about a God who shapes and bends sinful human beings and circumstances to accomplish his purposes.

Nothing human beings can or will do can deflect God from his ultimate loving purposes. Not only does God love us despite our misdeeds, he will even use our misdeeds to accomplish his will. Notice too that lying and deception do not go unpunished. They permanently fracture this family and set up tensions that continue for generations.

Wondering
  • Would you trust Jacob if he were your friend or neighbor?

  • Do you think it’s fair that God had already chosen Jacob over Esau as the bearer of the covenant promise?

  • How do you respond now to the Bible’s frequent reference to God as “the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob”?

Teaching
  • This story, with its murky morality, is important to help children recognize that God’s love does not depend on people’s moral behavior.

  • The drama is in the details. Don’t hesitate to play them up.

  • Most children this age probably cannot understand the two planes of activity here, the divine and human. But they can understand that God always loves and forgives people, even when they do bad things. They can also understand that forgiveness does not relieve us of the consequences of wrongdoing.

Steps

Step 1 Gathering for God's Story

  • body smart
  • music smart
  • self smart
  • word smart
  • ​​people smart

Before class begins, make three different signs: Yes, No, Wait.

Welcome the kids by name as they arrive. Ask them to tell the best thing that happened during the past week. Be sure to participate in the discussion by sharing a high point of your week too. Ask if they believe that God was with them all week, even on days when things didn’t go so well. Recall that one of God’s promises to us is to be with us at all times.

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