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Joseph the Ruler

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Wonder (2-3)Year 2Unit 3 (Wonder About God’s Extraordinary Plan for Ordinary People)Session 3
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Joseph the Ruler

Focus
God used Joseph to save Jacob's family and to feed a troubled part of the world.
Faith Nurture Goals
  • Delight in the way God brought Joseph and his family back together.
  • Tell what the complete story of Joseph shows us about God.
  • Express trust in God's constant care for us.
Memory Challenge

Leader Reflection

Preparing to Tell God's Story

This is a long Bible passage, but a great one. Of necessity, you will be following only the main contours of the story with your class.

Notice that there are two levels in this story about Joseph and his family. On the human level, we see the trajectory of results from actions they have taken in the past. On the divine level, we see how God provides for his covenant people during an upcoming famine. The one sentence that brings both levels together is found at the very end of the story, after old Jacob has died, and Joseph's brothers are still not sure they trust Joseph: "You intended to harm me [the human level], but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives [the divine level]" (Gen. 50:20).

As this part of the story opens, Joseph is thirty years old (remember he was seventeen when he was sold into slavery). He's endured thirteen years of imprisonment on false charges, but by God's grace and the gift of interpreting he is now second in command of all Egypt, administering the all-important ministry of agriculture and managing the economy.

Meanwhile Joseph's family is experiencing a famine that has struck the whole area. Knowing that the Egyptians have a plan and resources, Jacob sends the brothers for food. In Egypt they have to deal with Joseph. Not recognizing this great dignitary, they bow low before him. But Joseph recognizes them. As the text pointedly says, he remembered the dream he had told them years before about bowing down before him.

Joseph isn't ready to reveal himself to them and perhaps isn't able to emotionally. Harshly he accuses them of spying. In the process they mention their younger brother, still at home. Of course, Joseph wants to see him. He schemes to get them to bring their younger brother, Benjamin. At this point Reuben upbraids the brothers, saying that God is punishing them for selling their brother into slavery. Overhearing them, Joseph turns away and weeps as all the pain and memories flow over him. He also secretly returns the money they paid for the grain in their sacks. Now they are really afraid, but they go on home. Old Jacob refuses to ransom Simeon, who stayed behind, by sending his youngest son back with them.

Joseph continues to torment his brothers with what seem to be cruel psychological games. Jockeying for more information he plants stolen goods in their sacks, accuses them of robbery, and demands again their little brother. When Joseph sees Benjamin, the son of his own mother, Rachel, his heart softens. After one more frightening ploy of planting his own silver cup in Benjamin's sack and having the brothers arrested, they tell him the whole story, still not knowing who he is.

Finally, Joseph can stand it no longer. He sends everyone but the brothers out of the room, then reveals who he is. "I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt. And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you" (45:5). Then the brothers all embrace and Joseph sends them back, laden with goods, to tell their father. Humorously, Joseph's last words to them as they leave are "Don't quarrel on the way!"

What a story---it's almost unbelievable! And yet it reveals something that goes on all the time. Our lives, too, operate at two levels: the human and the divine. Trusting that, believing that, knowing that, makes all the difference in our fragile human existence. There's a sign over us: "God at Work."

Wondering
  • Why did Joseph wait so long to reveal himself?

  • Was he playing with his brothers, or punishing them?

  • Do you sometimes recognize the two levels of existence in your own life?

Teaching
  • Over time, people can and do change. Joseph changes in his attitude toward his brothers, and, under the pressure of Joseph’s tactics, the brothers realize the wrong they had done.

  • Do you have a story of “God at Work” you can share appropriately with your group?

Steps

Step 1 Gathering for God's Story

  • body smart
  • music smart
  • picture smart
  • self smart
  • word smart
  • ​​people smart

Today’s amazing story is filled with mystery and intrigue—and you get to share it with a group of wide-eyed kids! Help kids understand that God is not only with Joseph and with us during the bad times when we know we need God, but also during the good times, the great times, and the most surprising times of all. God was constantly guiding Joseph—and is guiding us—every step of the way!

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