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Belonging to Jesus

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Dive (6-8)Year 1Unit 1 (What Do I Do When Things Fall Apart?)Session 1
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Belonging to Jesus

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Focus
I find comfort in belonging to Jesus Christ.
Faith Nurture Goals
  • Experience the strength and joy of belonging to Christ.
  • Practice seeking comfort in Christ during difficult circumstances.
  • Hear stories of other Christians who found hope in Christ, even when they were mistreated and in danger.
  • Describe why belonging to Jesus is important to us.
Memory Challenge

Session Outline

Leader Reflection

Preparing to Tell God's Story

As you begin teaching these middle school children, please note that the Dwell curriculum for this age group changes its focus somewhat. It incorporates more doctrinal summary into each session.

Why? Why not just stick with the biblical stories? What's important about doctrine anyway?

The Bible is a big, sprawling, passionate story of God's relentless love for the world he made. There comes a time in reading and living into that story to summarize some of its truths into a clearer, more concise understanding of who God is and who we are in relation to God.

These young teens are ready to think more deeply about God. One tool that will be used to that end is Q&A: A Summary of Biblical Teachings--based on the Heidelberg Catechism. Q&A is a kind of shorthand version of the material the church has used for centuries to summarize and systematize the truths of the Bible.

One more thing: the Catechism on which this summary is based is not a cold or abstract summary of doctrine. It's not just statements about God, but zeroes in on what it means for us to be a child of God. It's biblical doctrine on a very personal level.

That focus is evident in the very first Q&A. "What is your only comfort as a Christian? That I, body and soul, in life and death, belong to Jesus Christ."

The comfort described here is not merely the ease of being comfortable, like the feeling you get curled up by a warm fire with your fingers wrapped around a hot drink. It is ultimate comfort, what remains when everything else falls apart, the comfort that gets us through anything this life throws at us, even death itself.

To grasp the reality of this ultimate comfort, you will be living into two powerful prison stories, one from the Bible and one from recent history. In both stories, believers in Jesus Christ are helplessly caught in deep trouble. In both, the only thing that gets the believers through is their faith that, no matter what happens to them, they belong to Jesus Christ.

What's pictured here is not a sugarcoated faith or an easy comfort. It's a sense of belonging that can endure any hardship or danger. The picture of Paul and Silas singing hymns to their Lord while in chains, their bodies racked with pain after being beaten to an inch of their lives, says it all.

Likewise, Corrie and her sister Betsie endure the darkest time and place of the twentieth century, slowly starving to death in a German concentration camp. Neither mistreatment, nor disease, nor the pain of death itself can shake their faith and the ultimate comfort of belonging to the One who held them in the palm of his hand.

As Paul put it in his letter to the Romans, "If we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord" (Rom. 14:8).

Wondering
  • What doctrines have been most meaningful to you over the years?

  • How do doctrine and Scripture interact in your faith life?

  • Why is it that so often the darkest times bring out the brightest faith?

  • What are some of the implications of belonging to Jesus Christ?

Teaching
  • You may wonder about the horrors and darkness of these stories and whether they are appropriate for middle school youth. The fact is, middle schoolers live with the very same fears and doubts we all do. They know they can be shot in the schoolyard, struck down by a terrorist, or mistreated by bullies. They need to know what they can ultimately hang on to.

  • Your teens are looking for authentic faith, real hope, deep love. Your task in these years will be not just to teach truths about God, but to humbly demonstrate from your own journey of faith, with its struggles and triumphs, what it means to belong to Jesus Christ.

Steps

Step 1 Gathering for God's Story

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Materials
  • None needed

Today marks an exciting beginning! You may already know some of the young teens in your group, but others you’ll meet for the very first time. Offer a friendly smile to each one who walks through the door. Introduce yourself and learn everyone’s names. Middle schoolers can be a self-conscious bunch, so the tone you set today will help them feel comfortable with you and with the other members of your group. Chat about what they did this summer, the beginning of the school year, or what’s happening around town as you wait for everyone to arrive.

When you’re ready to begin, welcome your group and express how glad you are to be with them. Share your desire not only to be a good leader but to learn with them and from them. Encourage them to come each week expecting to discover new things about God and themselves. Tell them that you hope they’ll feel comfortable expressing their ideas, faith, and doubts; asking questions about God; and sharing stories from their own lives. Ask everyone to work together to help make this group a place where each person feels accepted, respected, and appreciated.

Let the young teens know that each time you meet you’ll begin with a question or short activity to help you get ready to hear God’s Word. Spend a few minutes talking about this question together (be sure to answer it along with everyone else).

If you could have one superpower—like seeing through walls or turning invisible—to help you solve your problems, what would you choose? Why?

Tip

If you’re short on time, ask everyone to share their superpower with the person sitting next to them.

When everyone has had the chance to answer, direct their attention toward today’s topic. Mention that although we don’t have superpowers, we do belong to an all-powerful Savior, Jesus. He knows every hair on our head, loves us more than we can imagine, and promises that he’ll never leave us or forsake us!

Close the gathering time with a prayer from Psalm 121:1-2. Teach the group their line, and practice it once through before saying it together as a prayer:

Leader: I lift up my eyes to the hills—where does my help come from?
Group: My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. 

Re*formed

Our doctrine summarizes biblical truth and helps us understand how to apply Scripture to our everyday lives. In this case, Q&A 1 declares with conviction what Acts 16:16-25 describes through story—in times of hardship we depend on Jesus, who offers us lasting comfort, peace, and joy.

Step 2 Entering the Story

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Materials
  • Dive magazine

  • Story symbol printable page

Pass out pens and a copy of the Dive magazine for each person. Let the group know that you’ll be using them for the next several sessions, and encourage everyone to write their names somewhere on the back cover. Take time to draw or display the story symbol (printable page). You’ll be adding a new symbol each session. See DwellCurriculum.org for creative ways to display the symbols.

Tip

Before class, spend time preparing to share Corrie’s dramatic story with your group. Practice reading it out loud with expression and emotion. Don’t rush through the story—give everyone time to look at the photographs, to absorb what you’re saying, and to ask questions and wonder about what Corrie and Betsie experienced.

Ask if anyone has heard of the ten Boom family and the courageous things they did during the Holocaust. Preteens have probably studied the Holocaust in school and may have read Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl. Tell them that like Anne and her family, the ten Booms lived in the Netherlands when the Nazis invaded their country during World War II.

Ask two people to read the sections called “The ten Boom House” and “Locked up for Showing Love” on page 2 of the magazine. Then pick up where they left off, sharing Corrie’s incredible story. Read all or just a few of the excerpts to your group, depending on how much time you have. But be sure to include “Under the Lightbulb” because the next part of the session builds on that story. Anyone who is interested can read the sections that you don’t read together either after the session or at home when the unit is complete. 

Step 3 Living into the Story

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Materials
  • Candles and matches

  • Bible with concordance

  • Hymnals and songbooks

  • Christian music, optional

After you’ve shared Corrie’s story, ask your group this question:

Imagine that you are a prisoner at a Nazi war camp. What are some of the thoughts and fears you might have? What would be the worst part of it for you?

Allow time for everyone to answer who wants to. Then mention that Corrie and Betsie found deep hope and comfort in their relationship with God, even in this horrible situation. Next tell the group that in a few minutes you’ll be recreating the worship service that Corrie and Betsie hosted at Ravensbrück and imagining that you’re there too, worshiping along with them. Give everyone 3-5 minutes to work individually or with a partner to think of a song, Bible passage, or encouraging word that they’d like to share to bring hope to other “prisoners.” Assure them that they can read the lyrics for any song they’d like to use instead of singing it.

Have a few hymnals or songbooks available, several Bibles, a CD or MP3 player, and any youth-friendly Christian music you have with the lyrics printed inside the album jacket. Also point out pages 6-7 in the magazine, which offer Scripture passages that might be helpful.

Faith Modeling

This is a chance for everyone to practice an important aspect of Christian living. During hard times, we need to know where to look in Scripture to find words of comfort, hope, and encouragement!

Keep in mind that the young teens in your group may have a wide range of Bible knowledge. If a person seems stuck, help him or her look up a few of the passages suggested in the magazine. Bring along at least one Bible that has a concordance so that if someone has trouble finding a verse, you can show how to search for it by looking up key words.

When everyone’s ready, dim the lights and light a candle or two (if permitted by local fire ordinances and your building’s regulations) as you describe what the imaginary prison camp around you looks like. Speak in a soft voice and try to create an atmosphere of quiet anticipation. Encourage the group to huddle fairly close together on the floor near the candles and away from the windows, out of sight of the guards. Then hold your worship service, asking group members to share their songs, Scripture passages, or thoughts. Wait until the end to share your portion.

When it’s your turn, tell your fellow “prisoners” that you’d like to read two things—the first is a Bible passage that describes how Paul and Silas responded to being unfairly imprisoned, the second is a statement of faith made by Christians long ago.

Read Acts 16:16-25 with expression from a modern translation of the Bible or a paraphrase such as The Message by Eugene Peterson. Comment on what a powerful example Paul and Silas are for you. Then read Q&A 1 from the Dive magazine (p. 8). Briefly (2-3 minutes at most) share what it means to you to belong to Jesus and why you find that truth so comforting—especially during hard times.

End your secret service by blowing out the candles and turning on the lights.

Faith Modeling

Young teens understand what it means to belong to a family, a sports team, or a group of friends, but belonging to Jesus is a more abstract idea. For them, comfort usually comes in the form of hugs or soothing words. The hope we have in Jesus is different. As you prepare for this session, consider what Jesus means to you, and think of some specific ways you turn to him in hard times and find his presence to be your comfort. Speak briefly, but from the heart—your experience will provide a living, breathing example of what Christ’s love can mean for their lives as well.

Step 4 Living Out of the Story

  • music smart
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  • self smart
Materials
  • Dive magazines

  • Memory Challenge cards printable page, one per person

  • Dear Family letter printable page, one per person

Text
Tip

Be sure to send the family letter home with kids today so parents and guardians know what’s going on with your group. If you prefer, go to DwellCurriculum.org to find a version of the family letter that you can send by email.

Move back to your usual seats and tell the group that although your lives are very different from the lives of the people in this week’s stories, you do go through some very hard times and sad experiences. You face real fears, pain, and disappointment. Assure everyone that just like Corrie, Betsie, Paul, and Silas, we can find hope and comfort in knowing that we belong to the Savior of the world, who is with us in all circumstances, and who has a purpose and plan for each of our lives!

Ask everyone to open their magazines once more to page 8, and hand out pencils or pens. Mention that the triangle that appears on that page is similar to one that the ten Booms put in the window of their clock shop. It was a signal to their partners and to those who needed help that the coast was clear and it was safe to enter the hiding place. Let your young teens know that for the prisoners we’ve read about today and for us too, Jesus is the safest hiding place. He welcomes us to enter his presence in prayer and find healing, peace, and security in our relationship with him.

Tip

Copy the Memory Challenge cards onto cardstock, then cut them apart to distribute to the group. To help encourage kids to use the cards, consider punching a hole in each and attaching it to a key ring or small carabiner.

Give the group 3-5 minutes to reflect individually or pray silently about the questions in the triangle. Play Christian music quietly in the background (for ideas see Easy Extras #3). When everyone is finished, close your time together in prayer, thanking God that you belong to Jesus and asking God to use each one of you to offer encouragement and hope to others this week.

Thank everyone for joining you for the first session, and let them know you’re hoping to see them again next week! As they leave, hand out the Memory Challenge cards (printable page) and collect the magazines. Store them somewhere in the room for upcoming weeks.

Easy Extras

1. Extra Questions

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Time
5-8 minutes
Materials
  • none

Option for Step 1: Gathering for God’s Story.

You may want to use one of these questions in place of the one suggested for the gathering time:

  • What are the three hardest things you see people your age facing?
  • What was the best thing that happened to you this week? What was the worst?

2. Invite a Guest

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Time
10-12 minutes
Materials
  • guest speaker and books

  • maps or photographs; optional

Option for Step 2: Entering the Story

Instead of sharing excerpts from The Hiding Place, you may want to invite a guest to share a personal story of God’s sustaining love through suffering or persecution. If possible, meet with the guest speaker in advance or talk by phone to hear the story and offer feedback about what’s relevant and age-appropriate for middle schoolers.

Keep in mind that some of the young teens in your group may have their own stories of persecution and suffering that they or their families have experienced as refugees or immigrants. Give them space to share their stories with the group if they’d like to, but be sensitive to the strong feelings that might be associated with these memories. Pray as a group for their comfort and peace and the ongoing safety of their families.

If some or all of the young teens in your group come from cultures or countries that have experienced persecution similar to that experienced by the ten Booms or Paul and Silas, you may be able to find a story that’s more meaningful to the children than The Hiding Place. For example, Laotian, Cambodian, Chinese, Vietnamese, Hispanic, South African, Sudanese, Palestinian, First Nation, Native American, and African American people, as well as many, many others, have suffered or are suffering persecution of various kinds and intensities. For ideas, speak to families within your church community, visit your local library, or contact the world relief and mission organizations associated with your church. 

3. Meaningful Music

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Time
5 minutes
Materials
  • iPod or MP3 player with speakers

  • online access to downloadable music or a CD player and the CDs listed below

If you have a little extra time and access to an iPod or other MP3 player or CD player, play a song that relates to today’s session. Here are some ideas:

  • “You Are My World” by The Washington Projects, from the album Light Up the Dark
  • “You Are My Hope” by Skillet, from the album Alien Youth
  • “My Hope Is in You” by Third Day, from the album Offerings

Or choose another song that focuses on Christ as our hope and our help. Use the song either during the worship service in Step 2 or during the time of reflection in Step 4. Play some or all of it, and encourage everyone to listen and make it their prayer. 

4. Pray for the Persecuted Church

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  • ​​people smart
Time
5-8 minutes
Materials
  • computer with Internet access

  • printer

  • globe or world map; optional

As part of your closing prayer, you may want to remember Christians around the world who face intense persecution every day. Visit idop.org, the website for the International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted Church, and look under “Resources” to download the most recent prayer map. Involve the young teens in prayer by encouraging each of them to lift up the Christians in one or more of the countries that are included in the prayer map. 

5. Prisoners of the Bible Crossword Puzzle

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Time
5-10 minutes
Materials
  • Prisoners of the Bible printable page, one copy per person

If some people in your group arrive early, stay late, or finish any of the activities before others, they may enjoy working on the “Prisoners of the Bible” crossword puzzle. Make as many copies ahead of time as you think you might use. 

6. Memory Challenge Ideas

Dive offers selected portions of Scripture for memorization. Within a given unit, some repetition of the Memory Challenges occurs to help everyone retain the memorized verses for a longer period of time. You’ll also notice that within the overall Dwell curriculum many Scripture passages suggested for memorization reappear at the various levels.

Here are some suggestions for learning the Memory Challenge during your sessions:

Chain Reaction
One person begins saying the Memory Challenge. At a signal from you, he or she stops, and you point to another person, who takes over where the first person left off. This keeps everyone alert and involved!

Tip

You can help your group learn the Memory Challenge during each session by using one or more of the suggestions described here. Naturally, you will want to learn all assigned Memory Challenges along with the young teens.

Disappearing Words
Before the session begins, write the Bible verse on a board/newsprint. Have everyone say it together. Then erase a few words. Have everyone say it again, remembering the erased words. Continue erasing words and repeating until almost all of the Memory Challenge has been erased.

Reading
Have young teens divide the Scripture passage into a responsive reading for two groups. Group 1 reads a line, group 2 reads the next, and so on. This would make a nice ending to the gathering step, or a nice close of the session before final prayer.

Writing the Passage
Ask the group to write the passage on note cards from memory. When you give young teens a choice of either writing or reciting, you enable them to show their mastery of the material in a way that feels most comfortable to them.

Reciting in Unison
Instead of calling on individuals to recite, have the entire group say all or part of the passage in unison. This can work well whenever the passage is read during the session—pause and ask everyone to repeat it along with the reader.